A secret love affair and a good one? Yes. The secret love affair with yourself. Well, it doesn’t have to be really so secret affair but it must be deeply intimate and with a commitment for life.
“Use loneliness. Its ache creates urgency to reconnect with the world. Take that aching and use it to propel you deeper into your need for expression – to speak, to say who you are” Natalie Goldberg
Our brains are hardwired to detect any possible dangers, and to act fast in order to survive. That’s a basic pattern of the brain function. For the brain – a danger is a danger, so there is no big difference between a fire threat and an offense in close relationships.
What happens in intimate relationships when people fight? Why – suddenly – it feels like love has flown out of the window, and guards are up? Why does it become more important who is right, instead of how close we are? Why do we find so much pain when we look for love?
What is this? What is this so essential but a single key to have a happy relationship? With this secret applied in your life, you’ll be never heart-broken, and you won’t make the same mistakes you were making so many times. I promise.
From all experiences of Love, the Romantic Love is most mysterious and most wanted. This kind of Love touches us in the deepest point of inner being, promising happiness and bliss not available in any other circumstances.